December 28, 2010 09:00 AM by Shayla Perry
Dating and relationships are difficult, so who better to ask for help with your biggest dating dilemmas than a member of Bravo’s Millionaire Matchmaker team, like Destin? Check out Destin’s skills in action as he takes on one viewer’s very common dating problem–age vs. maturity.
I’ve only had a handful of relationships, which is fine. My problem is in the history of my life I’ve never had a guy really stick around. I find guys who are still stuck in the teenage mentality and want me to make all the decisions. Or I find guys who are older and I have very little in common with. I don’t necessarily want a ring, but an adult committed relationship would be great. Someone to grow and share life with. Why does this seem so hard to find? -Kelly N.
What’s the common denominator in your problem? You. It’s not the guys that have the issues so much as it is you having issues with the guys. How old are you? What do you do for a living? Where do you live? It’s not like there’s a magical man farm where you can just go pick one out and a call it a day. Think about it. AGE: Your age and his. Â Are you truly mature enough to have a relationship, or are you a kid wanting to play grown up? Are you picking up boys from high school or the senior home? Face it, most men don’t grow up until they’re in their mid-thirties. It’s just the way it is. OCCUPATION: Are you dating fellow video game testers? Are you swimming in a sea of kids that you work with and that’s who you date? What you do for a living, and what they do partially makes up who they are. Â Remember that. LOCATION: Location! Location! Location! Dated everyone in your city? Time to date elsewhere!
Men are malleable to an extent â€“- don’t be so quick to write them off.
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