June 21, 2011 07:29 AM by Candace Young
On last night’s fourth episode of The Bachelorette, the process of finding true love continued to be a difficult one for Ashley Hebert. She enjoyed a solid one-on-one date with Ben F, but things went downhill from there. Keep reading to learn what Ashley’s thoughts are about the episode, including why she actually became angry at one point…
Though still plagued with questions about what might have been with Bentley, Ashley claims to have gone into the fourth episode of The Bachelorette in Chaing Mai in a much better frame of mind. She chose Ben F for the one-on-one date because, as she noted in her People blog, he stood out on the orphanage group date the previous week. She said of Ben, “I learned from this date that Ben was the total package. He was easy to be around, interesting to talk to, and had so much depth to him.” She even went on to indulge in some kissing with him during the evening portion of the date.
The group date involving Muay Thai boxing, of course, went horribly awry. Ashley says the intention of the date was to do something active and ogle the guy’s bodies, but as it turned out, the trainers were actually frightening, and the boxing was more intense than she was prepared for. Ashley explains, “It seemed as if they were taking out some hidden aggression on each other! They were kicking and punching as hard as they could. I never thought it would go as far as it did. Poor Ames was a trooper.”
If the group date was bad, then the two-on-one was a nightmare. Ashley says she went into it with questions about the feelings she had for both guys, hence her no-nonsense reaction to William’s claims about Ben C. Ashley wasn’t pleased. She blogged, “I found myself growing angry and realized that it wasn’t worth keeping anyone here if they were even somewhat concerned about their online date-ability after they left.” She goes on to say that she and Ben C both had questionable feelings for one another, and as for William, she was simply unable to re-establish a connection with him since so much had happened.
Last was Ashley’s conversation with Chris Harrison about needing closure on the Bentley front. Though it seems crazy for her to be fixated on such a douchebag, let’s not forget that she was still in the dark, or as she put it, “mystifyed,” with regard to his departure. Ashley stressed in her blog that she truly needed answers at that point.
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