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The Real Housewives Of Orange County Recap: Who’s The Bully?

April 22, 2013 06:33 PM by Megan Thompson

The Real Housewives Of Orange County is all new tonight on Bravo.   Tamra hosts a dinner party at her new gym and all the girls are invited.  Like most OC dinner parties, there is no lack of drama.  You don’t want to miss the dramatic ending to this episode!

Alexis stops by Vicki’s house to see the results of her surgery.  “Just because you’re a grandma, doesn’t mean you have to look like one,” Alexis tells the cameras.  She even brings Vicki a post plastic surgery gift (only in OC)  which is a cute compact mirror.  Just in case Vicki wants to see if she might need some Botox in the future.   The two girls sit down for some wine and this is when Vicki drops the bomb that she wants Alexis to go to Tamra’s party with her.  Alexis looks shocked when Vicki said Tamra said it would “be okay” if Vicki brought her.  It takes a lot of coaxing and whining from Vicki, but Alexis finally agrees to go.

The cameras follow Heather to her new talk radio gig.  Heather feels that the work piece of her life puzzle is missing and she enjoys filling in on the radio.  And guess what Heather is talking about on her show?  Bullying.  She feels the word bulling is not applicable to every situation.  This is where Bravo throws in a flashback scene of Costa Rica with the girls “talking” to Alexis.  Heather doesn’t feel that she or the other ladies bullied Alexis is anyway.

Alexis brings her kids over to Lydia’s house for a play date.  This is where Lydia mentions that she met Heather.  Let’s just say that Alexis isn’t pleased that Heather told Lydia about her fake diamond ring! After trash talking Heather, Alexis then invites Lydia to Tamra’s party.

“We’ve been asked many times to photograph our house for a magazine,” Heather brags to the cameras.  The Dubrows are dreading going out to dinner with Lydia and Doug; who they are meeting fo the first time.  They just really want to know if they can be on the cover of the magazine or not.  But bad news, you have to be a “household name” to be on the cover.  The Dubrows will not accept anything less than a cover, so they decline an inside spread.  The dinner just gets worse when Lydia mentions she is friends with Alexis.   “You should think about how you’re coming into the group,” Heather advises Lydia. 

Tamra is getting ready for her big night, but she is pissed at herself for allowing Alexis to come.  While Tamra is regretting her decision, Alexis is hopeful the girls can work it all out.  Lydia and Alexis stop by to pick up Vicki and have a glass of wine.  And guess what?  Lydia is a “whoo hoo” kind of girl too.  Vicki thinks she is “going to dig” the new girl. 

The guests are starting to arrive at Tamra’s party, which is basically a fancy table in a big empty warehouse.  Before Vicki and Alexis arrive, Tamra calls a pow-wow with the other girls to talk about them. Tamra feels that she made a big mistake allowing Alexis to come tonight, because she doesn’t want to feel uncomfortable at her event.

When Alexis arrives she  immediately congratulates Tamra about her business and gives her a bottle of wine.  But after the initial small talk, the party vibe gets VERY awkward.  When Vicki mentions something about her insurance company, Gretchen gets annoyed and says that Vicki always tries to steal the spotlight.  “She’s a stupid person,” Vicki mumbles to Alexis and Lydia.  But Tamra heard the comment and asks, “Who’s a stupid person?”  Tamra immediately comes to her BFF’s defense.  Finally dinner is served and Tamra makes a toast.  Vicki then raises her glass and thanks Tamra for letting her bring Alexis.  “I just don’t understand why you wanted to come here?” Tamra asks Alexis.  Tamra really wants to fight, but Alexis doesn’t want to ruin the event.  This is when Gretchen tells Alexis to just leave – and this is where the fighting really escalates.  “Stop with the bullying,” Alexis tells the group.  All the girls begin to laugh at Alexis about her bullying comment.  When Alexis tells Tamra to butt out – Tamra LOSES it!  She gets up with anger and goes to pull Alexis’s chair from the table and yell “Get the F- out!”  As Alexis leaves, Tamra then turns her anger towards Vicki.  “If you are going to side with her then you get the F-out too!” 

Wow, that was quite the dinner party!  Do you think the girls are bullying Alexis?  Let us know what you think, leave us a comment below.

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70 Responses to “The Real Housewives Of Orange County Recap: Who’s The Bully?”

  1. Catherine Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 6:41 pm

    This episode was so sad. Tamra is a uneducated low class bully from a trailor park.

    Gretchen should be shamed of herself, Tamra said terrible things bout her and now they’re friends?
    Vicki is right, Gretchen is stupid.

    Heather is the most pompous ass of all. Her bragging, her house, her not going anywhere career, her husband, and her kids are ugly.

  2. Kimmya616 Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 7:32 pm

    Tamra is becoming a crazy bully. Is she going through Menopause?

  3. kristina Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 7:41 pm

    Tamar and Heather are the bullies!!!!!!#

  4. RHOC Fan Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 8:08 pm

    Of course, Tamra was bullying Alexis, just like she did last season. But this “party” really jumped the shark. You could see that Tamra was itching to reclaim her cred with the other women and deliberately picked a fight with Alexis.

    This stuff has to be staged.

  5. RHOC Fan Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 8:28 pm

    WOW !! Tamara,Gretchen and heather what is wrong with you 3 ??? Your children would be so ashamed YOU …

  6. RHOC Fan Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 9:09 pm

    Tamera, Gretchen, and Heather usually are 3 of my faves on the show…..not tonight! :( That was harsh girls.

  7. saba Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 9:15 pm

    Tamra gretchen and heather are terrible persons. They were so rude and snotty . Alexis should have left the party long time ago.

  8. jacasa Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 9:30 pm

    I’m no fan of Alexis, but I wish Tamra would have let her stay at the party. Vicki made too big of a deal out of saying “her” baby. The baby is not yours dear, it is your grandchild. I have six and a great grandchild, they are not my babies, they are my daughters’ babies.

  9. karen Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 10:10 pm

    Bravo has sunk as low as it can go, except perhaps for the NJ
    housewives. For so called “refined” women to behave that way
    is preposterous after the hostess approved Alexis coming. It HAS
    to be scripted. Gretchen was horrible, as bad as Tamra.
    The only people who looked like they had any sense of propriety
    were Alexis and Lydia.
    Yes, this was mean girls BULLYING.

  10. Cindee P Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 10:39 pm

    I definitely feel sympathy for Alexis as the other “women” were for sure behaving like bullies. I have to say that Alexis held held her own by defending herself against a pack of wild beasts. Belittling and invalidating Alexis’ perceptions and feelings and literally ganging up on her all at once is a clear form of attacking a perceived weaker being. They should be ashamed of themselves and Vicki should have come to her defense-what’s left to be seen in the next episode should reveal whether Lydia and Vicki are true friends or if they secretly relished in Alexis’ psychological battering.

  11. lbl Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 11:19 pm

    tamra is full of you know what, always has been has had problems with everybody, she stirs the pot then moves on, a real ass.
    heather is goofy to, she believes she is superior to all of them, but likes being on he show. gretchen, stupid. vicki what can i say, she is getting her do. she needs to find new friends, mature, business.
    Tamra you do play the victim. Oh but the face lift is a good job.

  12. lbl Says:
    April 22nd, 2013 at 11:27 pm

    they don’t want to like her, period. tamra likes to fight. if anybody stand up to her, she won’t do a thing. oh and that guy won’t merry her…

  13. Carol G. Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 4:29 am

    I think the bully is Vicki! She knew what would happen by bringing Alexis and when the drama began she said nothing to defend Alexis. The fact that she invited Alexis and then stayed at the table when Alexis was told to leave was disgusting. Lydia was a third party guest (invited by Alexis) and she also should have gotten up to leave. The three woman arrived together in the same limo and they should have left together in the same limo.

  14. Stephanie Yothers Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 7:35 am

    Tamra acts like she grew up in a trailer park. Every season she has to single out 1 person to bully. One year it was Jeanna Keogh. Then it was Gretchen. Suddenly she decided to like Gretchen and turned on Alexis. Tamra is unstable and bi-polar.

    I have always thought Gretchen is not that smart. When she called Slave to ask him how to make coffee with the Keurig I thought “and YOU call Alexis stupid????” Then she cackled happily when Alexis left the party. Impossible to believe she could have EVER been a friend to Alexis – I am guessing she was always jealous of her beauty.

    Heather is the worst one of the 3 because she is the smartest. However she constantly puts down her husband – probably because she is unhappy with her lift. She has chosen to follow Tamra’s hate party of Alexis because she is insecure and wants to be close to Tamra. I have no respect for her at all, think she puts on airs and don’t understand what Andy Cohen sees in her.

  15. Stephanie Yothers Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 7:36 am

    Tamra acts like she grew up in a trailer park. Every season she has to single out 1 person to bully. One year it was Jeanna Keogh. Then it was Gretchen. Suddenly she decided to like Gretchen and turned on Alexis. Tamra is unstable and bi-polar.

    I have always thought Gretchen is not that smart. When she called Slave to ask him how to make coffee with the Keurig I thought “and YOU call Alexis stupid????” Then she cackled happily when Alexis left the party. Impossible to believe she could have EVER been a friend to Alexis – I am guessing she was always jealous of her beauty.

    Heather is the worst one of the 3 because she is the smartest. However she constantly puts down her husband – probably because she is unhappy with her life. She has chosen to follow Tamra’s hate party of Alexis because she is insecure and wants to be close to Tamra. I have no respect for her at all, think she puts on airs and don’t understand what Andy Cohen sees in her.

  16. jb44 Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 8:31 am

    Tamra, Gretchen and Heather need to get their heads out of the sand and realize they are bullies. They bullied Alexis last year and again at this party. Not only that, before the bullying started, they were down right rude to Alexis, Vicki and Lydia. I’ve seen preschool children behave better than these three. Also, I am a grandmother and a great-grandmother. I have always called my grandchildren “my” babies. It is done as an endearment (affectionate utterance), not to be taken literally. Anyone who has had children should know this. Oh, that’s right, Gretchen doesn’t have any children.

  17. karen Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 8:34 am

    If anyone doubts this stupid show is scripted, watch Tamra raise
    her arms in celebration when she was voted “meanest” on Watch
    What Happens. Andy obviously loves demeaning women by
    encouraging this behavior.

  18. Teresa Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 9:29 am

    Tamara is a big bully – she obviously wasn’t raised like a lady. Alexis might have bragged a little in the past – but she isn’t mean. Tamara is mean. She was mean to Gretchen and mean to Vicki.

    I live in Orange County and have seen them all around town – at the mall and restaurants. None of them have any class.

    And by the way Heather – in the words of Brandi (BHHW) Money doesn’t give you class it just gives you money.

    I feel bad for Alexis. Even Dr. V said they acted like Bullies. Tamara said no Bullies are on school playgrounds. Is that where Tamara learned how to bully?

  19. Monica Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 10:04 am

    I am so sick of Tamara, Heather and Gretchen they are snobby, and bullies. I am so glad Alexis is sticking up for herself she does not have to take that from them. Tamara is a low class you know what, Gretchen wants attention so bad but now one cares for her ass accept for Slade and Heather is jeaslous of Alexis because she is beautiful and Heather looks like the Joker…TEAM ALEXISand VICKIE
    Vickie cut Tamara loose she is not a true friend she is a snake that looks like a cat…

  20. Monica Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 10:17 am

    I am so sick to Tamara, Gretchen and Heather…Tamara is so fake she clearly has come for the trailor park and made somewhat of a name for ther self over the little looks she has because she is a snake that looks like a cat…Vickie cut her loose she is no good. Gretchen needs to sit down she is not a wife never has been and shoule not be on the show at all she can’t even marry a low life like Slade…Heather is the biggest skinniest bitch of the me all she is jealouse of Alexis because she is beautiful inside and out and Heather looks like the JOKER why don’t you get your husband to fix your face maybe that will fix your ugly attitude. TEAMVICKIEandALEXIS…

  21. Cori Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 10:25 am

    I cannot believe peopele are saying that Heather, Tamra and Gretch were the bullies. Vicki only wanted to invite Alexis to start a fight with Tamra. The new “housewife” for being as “wealthy” as she claims to be needs to see an orthodontist to do somthing about those horse teeth. Clearly she and her husband are not very bright to think that Helen Hunt is a household name. She’s a great actress, but she’s not been anything recently. It sounds to me that their magaizne is more of a pyramid scheme. Did you hear them ask Heather and her husband did they want to contribute to the magazine. Google the couple and their so called magazine and it sounds like a pyramid scheme. I’m sure by next season they’ll be in foreclosure if not sooner.

  22. Pat Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 10:39 am

    I think it is time to wind up the Orange County group. I think Heather, Gretchen and Tamara are a
    catty group of kids. Heather you are not that beautiful or rich in fact you are a snob. Gretchen wake up and smell the rotten roses you are just another I think I am pretty face with a lap dog named slade and finally Tamara get hormone shots because you are a menopausal witch.

  23. fishchick Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 10:47 am

    Tamra is just mean, vile, nasty, and vicious when she doesn’t like someone… perhaps she attacks others to cover her own shortcomings. Gretchen, of all people, should know how the venom spews from Tamra since it was once directed at her, but now Gretchen and Tamra are both one in the same as far as mean and nasty goes. I guess Gretchen decided since she can’t beat ‘em, she might as well join ‘em. And as for the other one… what’s her name? Oh yeah… Heather… Does she have to remind us every single episode that she’s an “actress”? Maybe so since nobody’s ever heard of her. I guess the only way she could make her name known was to join a reality show so she could tell us every single episode she’s an “actress”. Unfortunately the name she’s making for herself is none too flattering.

  24. mark Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 11:36 am

    Briana is a demanding brat and needs to be shown the door.
    Heather thinks she is all that. Not even pretty.
    Tamra is an ass.
    Gretchen is a phony.

    April 23rd, 2013 at 11:38 am

    yes they are bullying alexis.they are demeaning hereven if all they say is true(which is not)for them to say it with such a harsh tone and one after another which hardly gives her a chance to respond. Heather really was rediculous on the radio show were she took her onesided opinion to broadcast

  26. Inshock Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 2:21 pm

    OMG last year I was already disgusted with Heather and Tamara and now they have Gretchen on the cray cray train!

    I really feel Alexis went with good intentions and I don’t blame her for threatening to sue Tamara. You can take so much….and Tamara did stop. The mean (yes you were bullies) girls were terrible to start with. Gretchen, calling Vicki stupid because he called her Grandson my baby! We all know what she meant. Although Gretchen can’t make coffee so she might be challenged.

    I think I really lost respect when Tamara did ask her what she was doing there. Alexis kept saying that please not here. This is supposed to be a nice evening but Tamara and Heather wouldn’t drop it. I’m even more disgusted with them because they wouldn’t even admit it. Not sure what party they were at but clearly they are livin in denial land! Yes ladies you were bullies!

    Tamara doesn’t come off real smart but the one that really gets to me is Heather. She is one piece of work. Heather you are just as pretentious and you act soo self righteous. You treat the other ladies like children. I can’t believe they don’t see past you! By the way when you say champs…. I sort of throw up in my mouth. Time for some different ladies on this show!

  27. KITTY CORTEZ Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 3:00 pm

    Tamra is hateful and I hate watching her. Trashy and I would like the show better without her.

  28. rhoc former fan Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 4:22 pm

    Like most of the comments above, Heather, Tamra and Gretchen were bullying Alexis. It was just as bad that Vicki, who invited Alexis, did not come to her defense. Vicki is the first to claim “victim” when she is approached and confronted, warranted or otherwise. However, during the verbal harassment that Alexis endured, no one not even Lydia, said “enough is enough.” How classless is that you curse and throw someone out. Tamra is a washed up divorcee who is bitter and out of touch. Eddie will not marry her, and she bullies others to make up for her own insecurities and feelings of inadequacy. Considering she came from an abusive relationship, you would think she would be the last to want to attack or belittle anyone else. Gretchen was a gold digger when she came onto to the show and deserves a looser like Slade. Heather is an unhappy housewife, who emasculates her husband and wishes she had a relevant career. I hope fans call Tamra (and the others) out for bullying as it is unacceptable especially for adults. Enough already!

  29. BRITGAL Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 5:02 pm

    These empty-headed women can never have a get-together without showing the world how classless they are. Vicki seemed to set the whole thing up, and sat beside Tamara without backing her up. Gretchen may be a good looker but that’s about it!!. Heather seems to have a nasty odor underneath her nose, a real snob. Briana should be thankful to have a roof over her head, instead of bullying her mother by her infantile demands of who should or should not be allowed to come to her MOTHERS house!! For all the money these women have they seem to have forgotten how to behave like ladies.

  30. Jen Says:
    April 23rd, 2013 at 10:31 pm

    I never write comments on anything, however, I had to comment on this.
    First of all, Tamra is so mean and excellent at playing the victim. She is a true Mean Girl & Bully! I, personally, have never cared for her. It is silly to have a feud with someone on every episode of every season… No wonder she can’t keep a man!
    The one I was most surprised with was Gretchen :( She has truly been my favorite, but I can’t say the same after this episode. She is turning into Tamara… And it’s scary! She should know how it feels to be treated that way, as she was bullied herself by all the girls. It’s hard to believe she was once a friend to Alexis! Her behavior was disgusting; I was embarrassed for her!
    Vicki and the girl with the teeth should have stepped in and intervened. I would never let anyone ( much less 3 girls) attack my friend as I just sat there. I have been in a similar situation and immediately stood up, said “that’s enough” and took my friend out of that situation.
    In short, YES! Tamra, Gretchen and Heather are BULLIES!!

    On another note, Briana and her husband need a reality check! Who tells their mother what to do in their own house…. Like Really?!?

  31. Jen Says:
    April 24th, 2013 at 4:50 am

    The Orange County women are bullies. They get pleasure on ganging up on someone over and over and making them feel horrible. If they don’t think that’s bullying, then they are more ignorant then I thought. This is an ugly side of the show to see these women justify what they are doing as constructive criticism. Shame on them !! They are the prime examples of mean girls who are bullies.

  32. lou Says:
    April 24th, 2013 at 4:51 am

    The Orange County women are bullies. They get pleasure on ganging up on someone over and over and making them feel horrible. If they don’t think that’s bullying, then they are more ignorant then I thought. This is an ugly side of the show to see these women justify what they are doing as constructive criticism. Shame on them !! They are the prime examples of mean girls who are bullies.

  33. Renee Says:
    April 24th, 2013 at 6:59 am

    Tamra is the definition of evil! She’s 40 something (acting like she’s 2), has a big mouth and should be living in a trailer park (sorry to the people living in trailer parks, they have more class then she does). I would really like to see her taken off the show. Heather and Gretchen were just as bad. Bullies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Glad I’m not rich because if that’s the way rich people treat other people they can keep all their money. I couldn’t imagine treating people the way they do.

  34. Gwynneth Says:
    April 24th, 2013 at 7:59 am

    Clearly there was some understanding among the cast that this party would be alexis’s first interaction w/ her ‘bullies.’ But how they made it happen was ridiculous and made vicki look like she was using her for a decoy so she and her new face weren’t in the hot seat. The obligatory scene where alexis tries to say no and vicki say’s ‘well then I’m not going made me hurl.’Those 2 make me hurl in general, wretchen too. If I were alexis (glaaad I’m not btw) I would have told her ‘oh good then let’s go to dinner that day’ and moved on.But what I don’t understand is, why didn’t alexis just respond to tamra’s question w a simple ‘at the end of the day I really wish your biz succeeds & want to support you, even with all of our differences’ or st to that effect?? It was the perfect opportunity. She seemed to me to come back at her w/ guns blazing- which is what makes it all look more like play acting than real interactions.
    Why do I watch this crap?

  35. TRINI MASON Says:
    April 24th, 2013 at 9:52 pm

    CATHERINE; I agree with you totally, Tamra and her kindergarden friends are totally bullies. They all follow the other one just like in kindergarden. They all decided to gang up on that poor woman that has done nothing wrong to them. You are right that Heather woman thinks she is the best because she has that beautiful mansion house; can’t stand her, feel sorry for her husband. I hope the new housewife doesn’t group with the big bullies.

    Don’t understand why the make fun of Vicky, I think she looks great, the job she had done was PERFECT, it looks very settle, you can’t tell unless she mentions it.

    This episode was so sad. Tamra is a uneducated low class bully from a trailor park.

    Gretchen should be shamed of herself, Tamra said terrible things bout her and now they’re friends?
    Vicki is right, Gretchen is stupid.

    Heather is the most pompous ass of all. Her bragging, her house, her not going anywhere career, her husband, and her kids are ugly.

  36. TRINI MASON Says:
    April 24th, 2013 at 9:56 pm

    the group of the bullies TAMRA, HEATHER and GRETCHEN, they need to grow up and start acting like adults and stop acting like 5 year olds. Be your own and don’t follow what what the other bullies do. Don’t be a follower that’s children’s games.

  37. TRINI MASON Says:
    April 24th, 2013 at 9:57 pm

    Alexis and Vicky have class, the other women are trashy and hipocrates.

  38. getreal Says:
    April 25th, 2013 at 12:55 am

    Tamra needs to stick to bullying Eddie into marrying her and giving her his money so that she can be the “independent” person she claims to want to be…..Gretchen needs to hurry up and bully Slimey into getting his vasectomy reversed so she can use his worthless, deadbeat sperm before her eggs dry up….and Heather can go back to bullying her wimpy/gossipy “little brother” husband, pinching him and ordering him away from the table, emasculating him to her heart’s content.

  39. boo Says:
    April 25th, 2013 at 7:27 pm


  40. Carol Burgard Says:
    April 26th, 2013 at 9:22 am

    I agree with all of the above comments. Tamara especially makes me sick to my stomach.

  41. Anne Says:
    April 26th, 2013 at 6:06 pm

    This episode was disgusting. When Alexis walked in the party she greeted Tamra very nicely,handed her a gift and extended the “olive branch”. In return Tamra just stared her down and gave her the “evil eye”. Lets face it, Tamra, Gretchen & Heather were all looking to pick on her again. They are nothing but big bullies who never left the schoolyard.
    Alexis should never subject herself to this abuse again. Tamra needs to be removed from the show, she is turning everyone off.

  42. Kelly Says:
    April 27th, 2013 at 8:10 pm

    It is time to wrap up the OC. It is not fun to watch anymore. Tamara and Heather are bullies. Shame on Vickie for nor walking out with the person she invited. Gretchen is just Tamara’s little puppy, eager to please her master. I will no longer watch this crap. Alexis should prove she is the only one with class and tact. She should leave the OC Housewives behind, I know I am!

  43. Kelly Says:
    April 27th, 2013 at 8:12 pm

    Oh and Andy, shame on you for encouraging the bullying. It is really just going too far!!!! Are you really that desperate for ratings? I think this might just back fire on you….

  44. Emily Says:
    April 29th, 2013 at 1:48 pm

    Yes, they are bullying her! She should have left that party as soon as that nonsense started! Those are not friends, those are not even people I would want to be acquainted with! Isn’t is Heather who always says “The friends you keep….” Well look at yourself! Shameful………..

  45. kerry bailey Says:
    May 1st, 2013 at 6:43 am

    Tamra is so horrible she just has no class she is a terrible women what would her children think of her when they watch this in years to came her constant swearing and bullying and her inapproprate behaviour in the bath with her boyfriend mother do not act like that

  46. Carol Burgard Says:
    May 1st, 2013 at 1:00 pm

    Is Eddie stupid? Why dosen’t he see through Tamara? That was a stupid comment (poon tang!). I have watched the HWOC since they started and they have all taken on some kind of “evil”. The new ones are already that way. I stopped liking Heather right away and I am not like that. She ought to be kissing her husband’s feet, instead she finds fault with everything he says. There is no humility with these “broads”. And, Vicki, tell your daughter and husband that they need to move out and let you make your own mistakes. You will always be a grandmonther, and then they grow up! I’ve been there, done that. Enjoy what life you have left.

  47. Laraine Pipoly Says:
    May 4th, 2013 at 8:46 pm

    I can’t stand Tamra, she has no class. Didn’t understand why Alexis invited someone else to Tamra’s party. Who does that? That was a put up job by Bravo. Love you Bravo, but that was WHACK! I used to love Heather last year, she has changed into one of the mean girls.
    I always loved Gretchen until now. She is just as mean as Tamra. It’s not very becoming. What a bunch of hateful women. Alexis is more likeable this year. Just keep her husband out of the series. Don’t disgust me with a Tamra- Eddie marriage. He needs to find a young sweet woman more his age. Tamra is a looser.

  48. Carol Burgard Says:
    May 5th, 2013 at 10:28 am

    Heather made a comment at Tamara’s classless party about Alexis needing an exsorism. I think she, along with Tamara and Gretchin are the ones who need an exsorism. I like Alexis but I think she sets herself up sometimes. You couldn’t pay me enough to be around those “mean girls”.

  49. get over it Says:
    May 7th, 2013 at 4:21 pm

    Am I the only one who thinks Alexis needs to grow up and stop crying bullying? Get over it Alexis.

  50. lisa Says:
    May 9th, 2013 at 10:20 am

    Tamara and Heather are acting like bullys and taking it too far for no reason. I think they are both going through menopause causing them to be actin unreasonable aka CRAZY. Heather lay off your husband, he provides you with a wonderful easy life and you have 4 beautiful healthy children together. dont forget the important things and for gods sake stop stressing over such petty, inconsequential thins!!!!!!!!!

  51. Melanie Aplin Says:
    May 10th, 2013 at 12:05 pm

    Yes Tamara is full of herself…. and rude and loves to fight! independent NOT she is in business with EDDY good luck user!

  52. Michelle Says:
    May 13th, 2013 at 12:37 pm

    Tamra is definitely a bully and classless. Nene Leakes is correct when she said it’s time to recast the real housewives of OC not only are Tamra’s menopausal symptoms evident in her senseless rages but she takes cattiness to a whole new level. It’s obvious these women are jealous of Alexis after all she’s younger and way prettier!!!

  53. Carol Burgard Says:
    May 13th, 2013 at 4:25 pm

    Tamara and Gretchen belong together (lesbo’s)! I used to like Gretchen, however she has taken on a new life! The camera’s have gotten to her and Slade. I don’t see them ever having a child together. They are too plastic and belong in a drama atmosphere where children don’t belong! Too bad that such a pretty girl turned into a fake! Sorry Gretchen, it’s true. Look at your clips.

  54. dee stewart Says:
    May 14th, 2013 at 3:54 am

    Tamara has become a bully and encourages the others to join her, Leave Alexis alone! Millions of Americans have experienced the downturn in the economy.
    Clean up your act and your mouth, Tamara, before Eddie rides off into the sunset. You are acting like a crazy bi polar menopausal woman!
    Gretchen: grow up! The world doesn’t revolve around you! Develop your mind and not just your looks! You are too pretty to be so shallow and narcassistic! Apprciate your looks but develop other things about yourself!
    They way Tamara and Gretchen trest others is disgraceful! How do they sleep at night???
    I also wish Vickie would at least see that perhaps Brooks is not the best choice for her. You cant find the right one if you are with the wrong one! Others can see what those of us in love with the wrong person can’t.
    Heather: lighten up and have fun! You are beautiful, talented woman with a husband that obviously cherishes you! Find a qualified nanny to help out and enjoy some time to redisocver your passions!
    This year; the show has become so mean spirited that it will most likely be the last year I watch! Its been fun but the world has enough ugly and crazy; I am no longer going to invite into my home!

  55. Harley _Angel Says:
    May 16th, 2013 at 11:39 am

    WHEN I STARTED WATCHING THIS SHOW ..I LIKED Vicki and Tamara. But the more I watched the show I saw how everyone was .PLAYERS AND LIARS AND BACKSTADDERS.Snakes and FAKE ASS WOMEN !! Their’s only 2 ladies I truly like now Vicki and Alexis…Tamara what a fake ass and the rest are Drama Queens No morals..Vicki needs her own show she’s Beautiful inside and out…Alexis is smart and Beautiful as well….But the rest are FAKE ASS WOMEN SO SAD !!! Vicki and Alexis you ladies needs to move on WITHOUT THE FAKE ASS Women…

  56. luvdabeach Says:
    May 17th, 2013 at 3:07 pm

    I’m sorry, but I disagree with most of the comments I have read so far. Tamara is Tamara. She can be a bitch, or she can be a very good friend. I have issues with Vicki (Although I feel that her daughter is being very disrespectful by living in her mother’s home and dictating “Mom’s” behavior). Vicki loses control and begins to shriek and call ugly names. Alexis, please. She is just a snotty “Oh look at me I am a Christian, God knows who I am”. She does not live her life as a Christian. She is very dismissive of people who are different than herself, her way is right and everyone else is evil. Not buying it, and by the way, GOD KNOWS ALL OF US SWEETIE! Honestly, all the women are not very good women insofar as how they treat one another. My best friend and I differ on many things, politics especially. I never talk trash or criticize her viewpoint nor does she criticize and talk trash about mine. We do not have to believe and behave the same. We agree on family, how to treat other people, and we each treasure the others friendship. I’m glad we are different, we learn a lot from each other. These ladies need to let each other be who they are, stop criticizing each other, focus on what REALLY matters, and move on! There are wars going on and it is a HUGE deal that Vicki had cosmetic surgery? Like, who on that show is a “cosmetic surgery/filler virgin”? My guess would be none. Vicki’s business. No need for you to grill her about it or comment about it.

  57. Victoria Says:
    May 18th, 2013 at 9:53 am

    I thought Gretchen was my favorite, but not now. She has acted so tacty. They act like they should be living in the Amazon river. Attacking.

  58. kdjc Says:
    May 27th, 2013 at 11:24 am

    I like Tamara & Heather. Gretchen is comical. The make the “show” interesting.

  59. Carol Burgard Says:
    May 31st, 2013 at 5:54 pm

    What now? Tamara is a real person with a past? Come on, she couldn’t handle the bad emails, press so she’s playing the sympathy card. I am sick to my stomach with all the drama. They are all camelions when they need to be. I feel sorry for all of your children who pay the price of your bad choices.

  60. Carol Burgard Says:
    June 2nd, 2013 at 5:35 pm

    Joe Gudice”whatever” is and bigger asshole than You can imaging. He is treating Teresa like a queen because he has “NOTHING” left. I don’t wish bad one anyone but he is evil. I can’t beleive the things he says on live TV. He’s got to be a true jerk/idiot!

  61. Carol Burgard Says:
    June 2nd, 2013 at 5:37 pm

    Teresa, quit trying to act like a “real mother”, You flunked!

  62. Carol Burgard Says:
    June 2nd, 2013 at 5:51 pm

    Hey Gudice/Judice/Jucy whatever you call yourself. You call Melissa names, what makes you think you are so good lookin? You’re an elf with a fuck## pot belly and ugley to boot. LOOK IN THE MIRROR ASS%$#@.

  63. Carol Burgard Says:
    June 2nd, 2013 at 8:16 pm

    Hey Teresa, husbands don’t call their wives bitches and cun#”#. You must be stupid or desperate to put up with that bastard. I’ve been married for 49 years and my husband has never disrespected me in that manner. He”s right about one thing, you are a bitch. WAKE UP!

  64. pugster Says:
    June 5th, 2013 at 4:40 am

    It seems to me that the HWOC have an instigator among them named Vicki. Poor Vicki, she has not been truly happy for years. Mainly because it takes a man in her life to make her happy. I have not seen such hyprocrisy come from any one HW. She has the moral absense (which she displays by her choices in men) and the needy character that some men take advantage of. Yet she never stops accusing her fellow HW of their mistakes.
    Truly an unhappy (in herself) person.

  65. JenniferJustice Says:
    June 5th, 2013 at 11:29 am

    I dont’ understand why Tamra’s behavior would shock anyone. Try as she might, she has never had class and never will. No training, expensive clothes or neighborhood will change that. You’re either born w/it or not and she wasn’t. She is ignorant, her vocabulaty is stunted, and she is so predictable with her yelling and screaming over people so she and others won’t hear their rationale. I can’t stand the woman. She used Simon to get ahead and live the high life until he took a hit financially, then she threw him under the bus. Now she traipses around with her implants and extensions and gross Eddie – again, uneducated and so much try. Go away. We need new blood in RHOC and I don’t mean Lydia. That girl’s eyes freak me out!

  66. ann Says:
    June 12th, 2013 at 7:48 am

    Seeing how what mean nasty witch Tamara is,I don’t think Simon was ever the problem..It was Tamara,she has a big mouth who likes to play the innocent victim.This show has really turned into garbage.Andy Cohen doesn’t give a crap with the type of women he hires.

  67. Blondie Says:
    July 10th, 2013 at 3:06 pm

    Does anyone notice that when the heat gets up under Tamara, Vicki, or Gretchen, they come up with a new angle. Tamara, bad childhood, Gretchen, turned mean girl, Vicki, denial, denial, denial. Wake up Bitches!

  68. piperoni Says:
    August 16th, 2013 at 10:14 pm

    Alexis is my fav! she has been since season 5! great seasonXO

  69. Susana Says:
    August 19th, 2013 at 2:30 pm

    I think Lydia is the real bully with all her sarcastic remarks & digs at the other housewives. Ain’t that right princess????

  70. Sally Says:
    September 22nd, 2013 at 6:46 am

    Alexia is an idiot, I watched her last season and she is so so in love with herself. She thinks she’s drop dead gorgeous, she’s not by the way, why don’t u just get real Alexis no one believes a word u say, As for bullying she shouldn’t have gone to the dinner party she knows that her and Tamra don’t get on, I actually cringe when you are speaking, u are so dumb, quite honestly I wish u would just leave


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